.........from the dead. I've been sick with a cold and haven't felt much like writing. It was hard enough to work through the weekend and week and do normal home activities. Geez, the kids have TONS of homework each night!!!
It's been a GREAT week in the Nesmith home. ALL the kids have brought home excellent grades and excellent conduct. Selah has gotten recognized 2 times for her exceptional behavior. It's much better than last week ;) The kids have even jumped out of bed (with the alarm clock) and gotten each other up and moving in the morning!!! I expect next week to be a challenge.....
You know how kids are. As soon as you think, wow, we've got it all together - it goes to heck in a hand basket. I swear, I feel like I'm up on a pedestal like, "I am the BEST MOM in the world. Just look how well behaved my perfect, wonderful, beautiful, genius offspring are" (imagine my chest puffed out and my chin up)....... And then those wonderful, perfect, beautiful, genius children go and wipe vaseline all over the quilt on my bed. Or after my sweat and tears (and there are tears!!!) of cleaning up and going through their clothes upstairs, it looks like a TORNADO when I go up there that very same day. Or if I say like ONE MILLION times, "(insert really precious voice) Sweety pie, angel, honey bunch please pick up the bathroom and don't leave your clothes in the middle of the floor (1st time). Babe, please go get your clothes out of the bathroom floor (2nd time). By like the 4th time, I have raised my voice, and they are balled up in the fetal position crying because "I hollered at them". Seriously???
Neither Keith or I are holler-ers (is that a word???). So don't feel too sorry for them. We rarely raise our voices. Like we tell the kids, if we have gotten to a raised voice, it's the ONLY way we can get your attention, and you can bet we are frustrated.
But truly, kids, I am so very proud of how you guys have been this week. Will, I love how you still hug me in front of the whole school bus and tell me that you love me before you jump on the bus. Sus, I love how when I start getting frustrated about the house, you jump up and start helping because you "don't want me to be sad". Sarah B, I love how tender you are - you were so concerned about my minor head cold; you kept asking "Mama, are you sure you feel ok?". Selah Dean, I love how you sit in a chair in front of your drawers to thoughtfully pick out your clothes in the morning - usually which do not match or are 3 sizes too small!!!
Kids, one day your daddy and I will miss seeing the vaseline spot on the quilt. We will miss those clothes on the bathroom floor. Just remember all 6 of us are a team, and we are trying to teach you responsibility. It's our job. God gave your daddy and I the responsibility to teach your certain life lessons (like how to obey, respect, love, etc). I thank each one of you for making our lives so full and wonderful!!! And you know what????? - WE LOVE THE CRAZINESS!!!
Tonight we are celebrating Will and Sus' birthday by having like a million friends over to play MESSY KICKBALL!!! It's gonna be a BLAST. It's gonna be like a block party on Avery Lane!!!
Friday, September 7, 2012
Thursday, August 30, 2012
the atticus project
Visit atticus-project.blogspot.com (it's another blog of mine)
It's interesting.....I promise :)
It's interesting.....I promise :)
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
Hurricane Isaac struck the Nesmiths!!!
Today is the day that Category 1, Hurricane Isaac, hit land around the New Orleans area. Natural disasters always seem so awful maybe because they cannot be prevented. You just sort of have to brace yourself and pray.
Well, my kids awoke this morning on the wrong side of the bed. So far, all of our mornings have been very smooth and easy while getting ready for school, eating breakfast, making lunches, and getting to the school bus on time. Maybe it started off on the wrong foot because last night we didn't make them put their breakfast and lunch selections in the "Breakfast/lunch/snack notebook". Because there have been many a World War III over what they FEEL (insert whiny voice) like eating for breakfast, lunch, etc, we now make them choose it the night before. They cannot change their mind the next day. THIS HAS WORKED EXTREMELY WELL!!! No knock down, dragouts!!!
Last night I figured since I was off today I would just let them decide in the morning. What a disaster!!! I won't go into detail, but it was rough...
Sarah B and Will: both of you came home with a warning today. Both of you were talking while the teacher was talking. I wanted to document this because even these things are a memory. Your daddy and I truly believed both of you when you said that you were asking a question about your school work to your neighbor, but the instructions from the teacher were to be quiet (YIKES!!!). Neither one of you lied about it; you both came running in the door telling me you received a warning. You did not get in trouble; we just talked about it. We thanked them for telling the truth. They said they remembered that they would get in "double trouble" if they lie. We also cautioned you that if we see this problem again in the near future, we would have to take a different route of consequence (i.e. grounding, etc). :/
It's been a fine afternoon...relatively uneventful. We are all headed to church :)
Well, my kids awoke this morning on the wrong side of the bed. So far, all of our mornings have been very smooth and easy while getting ready for school, eating breakfast, making lunches, and getting to the school bus on time. Maybe it started off on the wrong foot because last night we didn't make them put their breakfast and lunch selections in the "Breakfast/lunch/snack notebook". Because there have been many a World War III over what they FEEL (insert whiny voice) like eating for breakfast, lunch, etc, we now make them choose it the night before. They cannot change their mind the next day. THIS HAS WORKED EXTREMELY WELL!!! No knock down, dragouts!!!
Last night I figured since I was off today I would just let them decide in the morning. What a disaster!!! I won't go into detail, but it was rough...
Sarah B and Will: both of you came home with a warning today. Both of you were talking while the teacher was talking. I wanted to document this because even these things are a memory. Your daddy and I truly believed both of you when you said that you were asking a question about your school work to your neighbor, but the instructions from the teacher were to be quiet (YIKES!!!). Neither one of you lied about it; you both came running in the door telling me you received a warning. You did not get in trouble; we just talked about it. We thanked them for telling the truth. They said they remembered that they would get in "double trouble" if they lie. We also cautioned you that if we see this problem again in the near future, we would have to take a different route of consequence (i.e. grounding, etc). :/
It's been a fine afternoon...relatively uneventful. We are all headed to church :)
Saturday, August 25, 2012
It happened on this day EIGHT years ago.........
........my beautiful Susannah Alexis Nesmith was born. You came into this world on 8/25/2004 at 1301 (1:01 pm). You weighed 8 pounds 13 ounces and were 21 inches long. You came 2 weeks early - your due date was 9/6/2004. You are named after a very important person in my life - my sister and best friend, Karen Alexis White Stacy. You also have the name, Susannah, derived from the Bible. Your daddy and I thoughtfully planned each one of your names (we had yours planned since I was 16 years old and your daddy was 17 years old!!!). Each one of your names are extremely significant to us. Be proud of it always!!! You had sparse black hair on your head and cheeks people could see from the back of your head!!! You cried and cried until you got your first meal. You were a great mover inside my belly...always dancing. Your brother, Will, was ALWAYS jealous when I would hold another baby, but when you were born it was like he knew you were ours forever. He didn't get the least bit upset when I would hold you. While we were in the hospital, we thought life could not be more perfect!
Then we brought you home.....and you did NOT sleep a wink the first night. Every time we put you in your bed, I mean even when we would ACT like we were setting you down, you would cry - loudly. We lived in a 900 square foot house, and the walls were as thin as paper. We were totally worried that you would wake Will up - who was not even 2 years old. We were NOT used to having multiple children. We barely made it through the night without losing our minds, but morning did finally arrive. The next night was an exact repeat of the the first night. THEN we figured you out......
When Will was born, we literally came home from the hospital and laid him in his bed in his room, unswaddled, and he went to sleep. Granted, he still woke up to eat, but he just got placed in his bed. WELL.....we thought we could just plop you in your baby bed and that you would go to sleep. WRONG - you wanted to be swaddled, my dear. Once we figured that part about you out - you were pretty easy (with the exception of the normal woes of the first couple of weeks of a newborn).
Baby girl, my we cannot tell you how much we love you. I cannot express how you have truly blessed your daddy and my life. You are one of the most caring, full of life little girls I know. I love how you wake up smiling in the morning. I love how you get hyper when you are sleepy. I love how you adore your bed and love getting in it each night - just like when you were a tiny baby. You never liked us to rock you or hold you to get you to sleep. You wanted us to lie you in your bed and leave you alone. I love the deep dimple on the right side of your cheek. I love your heart-shaped angel kiss on your forehead - the one you make me kiss each night when I tuck you in to bed. Your Nana (your great-great grandmother) was the first to recognize that you look JUST like your Mama. I am so very proud of that, and I hope that one day you can appreciate it. Your eyes and skin color came from your daddy. Your eyes sparkle like the waters of the Caribbean Sea. Angel, I love the way you always want every one to be happy. You are the classic "people pleaser". On the other hand, you can also be super pest-y to your siblings. You also have the best whine of any of you guys. You can drag out a whine forever!!! You are a tad on the dramatic side - BUT, I love that too. You love the Lord, and are always compassionate and friendly to people. You are extremely competitive and always want to be finished with your classwork FIRST!!! You love to dance, swim, play with your friends, play outside, ride your bike, play with animals, and much more. Sus, I want you to know that there is NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING, in this world that you can do to make your daddy and me not LOVE YOU!!!
HAPPY 8th BIRTHDAY!!!
On your day, today - We got up ate breakfast at Chik-Fil-A (inside!!!) and went hiking at Oak Mountain. We had a blast!!! We ate FROZEN YOGURT FOR LUNCH at Yogurt Lab. We went out to eat at Five Guys (your choice) for dinner, and all of you jumped on the neighbor's trampoline til dark!!! You said it was your BEST birthday so far!
Then we brought you home.....and you did NOT sleep a wink the first night. Every time we put you in your bed, I mean even when we would ACT like we were setting you down, you would cry - loudly. We lived in a 900 square foot house, and the walls were as thin as paper. We were totally worried that you would wake Will up - who was not even 2 years old. We were NOT used to having multiple children. We barely made it through the night without losing our minds, but morning did finally arrive. The next night was an exact repeat of the the first night. THEN we figured you out......
When Will was born, we literally came home from the hospital and laid him in his bed in his room, unswaddled, and he went to sleep. Granted, he still woke up to eat, but he just got placed in his bed. WELL.....we thought we could just plop you in your baby bed and that you would go to sleep. WRONG - you wanted to be swaddled, my dear. Once we figured that part about you out - you were pretty easy (with the exception of the normal woes of the first couple of weeks of a newborn).
Baby girl, my we cannot tell you how much we love you. I cannot express how you have truly blessed your daddy and my life. You are one of the most caring, full of life little girls I know. I love how you wake up smiling in the morning. I love how you get hyper when you are sleepy. I love how you adore your bed and love getting in it each night - just like when you were a tiny baby. You never liked us to rock you or hold you to get you to sleep. You wanted us to lie you in your bed and leave you alone. I love the deep dimple on the right side of your cheek. I love your heart-shaped angel kiss on your forehead - the one you make me kiss each night when I tuck you in to bed. Your Nana (your great-great grandmother) was the first to recognize that you look JUST like your Mama. I am so very proud of that, and I hope that one day you can appreciate it. Your eyes and skin color came from your daddy. Your eyes sparkle like the waters of the Caribbean Sea. Angel, I love the way you always want every one to be happy. You are the classic "people pleaser". On the other hand, you can also be super pest-y to your siblings. You also have the best whine of any of you guys. You can drag out a whine forever!!! You are a tad on the dramatic side - BUT, I love that too. You love the Lord, and are always compassionate and friendly to people. You are extremely competitive and always want to be finished with your classwork FIRST!!! You love to dance, swim, play with your friends, play outside, ride your bike, play with animals, and much more. Sus, I want you to know that there is NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING, in this world that you can do to make your daddy and me not LOVE YOU!!!
HAPPY 8th BIRTHDAY!!!
On your day, today - We got up ate breakfast at Chik-Fil-A (inside!!!) and went hiking at Oak Mountain. We had a blast!!! We ate FROZEN YOGURT FOR LUNCH at Yogurt Lab. We went out to eat at Five Guys (your choice) for dinner, and all of you jumped on the neighbor's trampoline til dark!!! You said it was your BEST birthday so far!
Tuesday, August 21, 2012
Shock and Awe - DAY 2
"Shock and Awe" is the designated name of our current parenting tactic. This is the 2nd day of our experience/experiment, and I am actually shocked at how it is going. Without the distractions of TV, toys, iPad, etc. we have been able to enjoy the "little" things. The kids haven't complained about it as much as I thought they would. They even popped out of bed this morning and were dressed and ready 30 minutes early!!! When they got home from school, they OFFERED to cut grass, do homework, do laundry, etc. Did you read that???????? They offered!!!!!!! I mean, my kids have regular chores, and they know how to do more than most kids (start and finish laundry, clean bathrooms, change sheets on beds, cook small meals, cut grass, etc). But their chores are mandatory. Generally the response is, "Uh, why do I (draw the "I" out a bit and insert an extremely whiny voice) ALWAYS have to do that???". I hate infinite words such as always, never, etc. We usually have to threaten them to get them to do what we ask them. Believe me, we are VERY fair parents, and we like to have a lot of fun so they are DEFINITELY not mistreated!!! I had to pick my chin off the ground when the kids were offering to go ahead and do their chores and more... I mean, I was SHOCKED!!! I looked outside and Will had let SB sit in the reading inner tube while he read to her (no, you didn't read that wrong - I said inner tube, like at the pool or lake...it's a treat to sit in the inner tube on the porch while they read each day). Yes, we are definitely red necks!!! I'm just amazed so far by this experiment....
School bus days: Today was the kids' first day on the big yellow school bus. Yes, I videoed it like a crazy mother. I think riding on the bus is a rite of passage. The kids have been begging to ride the bus for a few years now, and since we know the kids on the bus and the bus driver - we conceded to let them try it out. They did great, and said they had a blast!!!
To my sweet, innocent William,
I want you to know how proud I (we) am of you. Your birthday is coming up, and I have a post planned for you on that day, but I had to pay particular attention to you today during my writing. I got a call from the school today. At first I thought, "Really, sick already??? It's just the 2nd day of school?", but it was the RLC teacher asking to test you for the gifted program. You might remember that you were tested in the 2nd grade, but your daddy and I decided that you were a little to immature at that time in your life to commit to RLC - so we opted out. Today, you came racing off the school bus to tell me that they tested you and that the teacher said you did great!!! You even said out of the blue tonight, "I hope I get into the gifted program and Mom, can you believe I was tested for RLC today?" I could see a huge, genuine smile on your face from excitement.
But, Will, I want you to know that if you do or don't place in the gifted program, there is one thing your daddy and I know - YOU ARE GIFTED IN OUR EYES!!! I am not talking about school or grades, either. I'm talking about the overall person you are. You are truly a gift from God, and we are both proud of how you are using your gifts. Please do not be too disappointed in yourself if you do not place. It's ok to be a little bummed, but be confident in who you are. All your daddy and I have ever asked is that you do YOUR personal best - not anyone else's best. If your best is all A's, then we expect all A's. If your best is all B's, then we expect all B's, and so forth. WE ARE SO PROUD OF YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE!!! We love you so much!
***I've got so much more on my mind, but I'm so sleepy. Also, forgive my typos or grammatical errors - I'm not going to proofread tonight. Reminder to myself - Selah's health stuff, organizational thoughts...***
Verse of the day: "Come now, let's settle this, says the LORD. Though your sins are like scarlet, I will make them white as snow. Though they are red like crimson, I will make them white as wool."
Isaiah 1:18
School bus days: Today was the kids' first day on the big yellow school bus. Yes, I videoed it like a crazy mother. I think riding on the bus is a rite of passage. The kids have been begging to ride the bus for a few years now, and since we know the kids on the bus and the bus driver - we conceded to let them try it out. They did great, and said they had a blast!!!
To my sweet, innocent William,
I want you to know how proud I (we) am of you. Your birthday is coming up, and I have a post planned for you on that day, but I had to pay particular attention to you today during my writing. I got a call from the school today. At first I thought, "Really, sick already??? It's just the 2nd day of school?", but it was the RLC teacher asking to test you for the gifted program. You might remember that you were tested in the 2nd grade, but your daddy and I decided that you were a little to immature at that time in your life to commit to RLC - so we opted out. Today, you came racing off the school bus to tell me that they tested you and that the teacher said you did great!!! You even said out of the blue tonight, "I hope I get into the gifted program and Mom, can you believe I was tested for RLC today?" I could see a huge, genuine smile on your face from excitement.
But, Will, I want you to know that if you do or don't place in the gifted program, there is one thing your daddy and I know - YOU ARE GIFTED IN OUR EYES!!! I am not talking about school or grades, either. I'm talking about the overall person you are. You are truly a gift from God, and we are both proud of how you are using your gifts. Please do not be too disappointed in yourself if you do not place. It's ok to be a little bummed, but be confident in who you are. All your daddy and I have ever asked is that you do YOUR personal best - not anyone else's best. If your best is all A's, then we expect all A's. If your best is all B's, then we expect all B's, and so forth. WE ARE SO PROUD OF YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE!!! We love you so much!
***I've got so much more on my mind, but I'm so sleepy. Also, forgive my typos or grammatical errors - I'm not going to proofread tonight. Reminder to myself - Selah's health stuff, organizational thoughts...***
Verse of the day: "Come now, let's settle this, says the LORD. Though your sins are like scarlet, I will make them white as snow. Though they are red like crimson, I will make them white as wool."
Isaiah 1:18
Monday, August 20, 2012
Ahhhh...the first day of school!!!
Today was the first day of school for all of my dear darlings. I absolutely CANNOT believe that I have 4th, 2nd, and 1st graders (no, Selah, my baby, I didn't forget that you are in 4 year old kindergarten!). My, how the time has flown!!! I think of my sweet William, my eldest child, and the day he was born. I remember thinking in the hospital, I don't want him to ever go school or grow up. And I thought the same of each subsequent child. Well, it happened like magic - right before my eyes. Usually on the 1st day of school there is so much excitement that NO ONE has any trouble waking up. I didn't even set their alarm clocks. I knew they would pop out of bed. Usually there is no arguing about anything on the 1st day of school. After everyone was dressed in their new school clothes, backpacks on their backs, pictures taken by Mom, and both dogs and the neighbor cat kissed and hugged good-bye - we loaded the car and headed to school.
I ran to Walmart to get toilet paper (can you believe I forgot that on my early morning trip on Saturday???). I think we only had one square left. After my Walmart trip, I power-walked for 40 minutes. When I came in the door from walking, I noticed a green lunch bag on the counter. It was Will's!!! I got BACK INTO my car and raced up to the school to get the lunch bag to him before lunch. What would they do without Mom????
After school, the girl's changed clothes in the car into their dance uniforms and they ate the snack I packed. We had to be in Vestavia by 3:45!!!!!!! We were going a million miles/hour by the time school got out. WELCOME BACK TO THE REAL WORLD!!! I honestly think everyone in the Nesmith household is ready to get back into a routine, though. It's kind of a nice change of pace.
After dance, we headed home. The kids played outside for a little bit to run off some pent-up energy after a long day sitting in a chair and listening. Then suddenly, Sarah came back downstairs in a major tizzy!!! "Where are all of my stuffed animals and babies and my covers for my bed and my pillows??????". She found Sus and told her, "Susannah, have you seen the upstairs...where is all of our stuff???". They both came racing downstairs and voiced their concern to Keith and I. They were freaking out - mildy. Not!!!
When we were sitting at the dinner table together, Keith and I explained why all of their comforts of home were missing. All of us, but mostly the kids have really taken for granted all of the "things" they have. Keith and I have been racking our brains on how to make our kids understand how lucky and blessed they truly are. I mean, they just happened to be born in the United States of America, live in a safe city, borne to two parents who still love each other very much, have an address, etc... BUT, as kids do, they kept asking for more and more and more (and not just asking - throwing fits, crying, using hateful names, etc.). It finally bothered Keith and I so much that we decided to show them how lucky they REALLY are. I mean, we tell them all the time, but we wanted them to "feel" the difference. We kept telling them that they are ungrateful, but we thought to ourselves - how can they be more grateful. How does a kid act out gratefulness. We are not teaching them anything by simply labeling them ungrateful. This has GOT to be a teaching moment. So today, EVERYTHING, except ONE stuffed animal/baby doll, ONE blanket, ONE sheet, and ONE pillow was taken out of their rooms and playroom. No toys, no TV, no iPad games, no video games. They can play outside (which they do anyway), ride their bikes, color, draw, read, or talk to each other. No fast food on Fridays, only meals at home. If we are out of food, it's peanut butter sandwiches. Our goal is doing this for 2 weeks, but we will re-evaluate at that time.
We did not make them feel guilty. We told them that they were NOT in trouble. We told them that this is an experiment that we are doing together. We did not bring up or remind them of any of the specific events that led to this decision. We didn't want them to think we decided this based on a "knee-jerk" reaction. We tried to be gentle and loving when telling them about this.
After all the kids finished their daily reading, showered, and brushed their teeth, we ALL laid down on the concrete outside to watch the clouds. Crazy, right??? We pretended the clouds were the ocean. We even told each other, "Hey, you want to go to the beach?". The kids said the bats looked like the fish in the sea, the airplanes were the boats, the puffy clouds were the waves, and so on. We even all closed our eyes and got still and quiet to guess how many different kinds of summer bugs we could hear serenading us. I'm sure if the neighbors looked out their window, they thought "Wow, those Nesmith's are weirder than we thought". But is was a really neat moment together. See, we take those small, but big things for granted!!!
All in all - it was a great day!!!
Verse of the day: "All night long I search for you; in the morning I earnestly seek for God. For only when you come to judge the earth will people learn what is right."
Isaiah 26:9
I ran to Walmart to get toilet paper (can you believe I forgot that on my early morning trip on Saturday???). I think we only had one square left. After my Walmart trip, I power-walked for 40 minutes. When I came in the door from walking, I noticed a green lunch bag on the counter. It was Will's!!! I got BACK INTO my car and raced up to the school to get the lunch bag to him before lunch. What would they do without Mom????
After school, the girl's changed clothes in the car into their dance uniforms and they ate the snack I packed. We had to be in Vestavia by 3:45!!!!!!! We were going a million miles/hour by the time school got out. WELCOME BACK TO THE REAL WORLD!!! I honestly think everyone in the Nesmith household is ready to get back into a routine, though. It's kind of a nice change of pace.
After dance, we headed home. The kids played outside for a little bit to run off some pent-up energy after a long day sitting in a chair and listening. Then suddenly, Sarah came back downstairs in a major tizzy!!! "Where are all of my stuffed animals and babies and my covers for my bed and my pillows??????". She found Sus and told her, "Susannah, have you seen the upstairs...where is all of our stuff???". They both came racing downstairs and voiced their concern to Keith and I. They were freaking out - mildy. Not!!!
When we were sitting at the dinner table together, Keith and I explained why all of their comforts of home were missing. All of us, but mostly the kids have really taken for granted all of the "things" they have. Keith and I have been racking our brains on how to make our kids understand how lucky and blessed they truly are. I mean, they just happened to be born in the United States of America, live in a safe city, borne to two parents who still love each other very much, have an address, etc... BUT, as kids do, they kept asking for more and more and more (and not just asking - throwing fits, crying, using hateful names, etc.). It finally bothered Keith and I so much that we decided to show them how lucky they REALLY are. I mean, we tell them all the time, but we wanted them to "feel" the difference. We kept telling them that they are ungrateful, but we thought to ourselves - how can they be more grateful. How does a kid act out gratefulness. We are not teaching them anything by simply labeling them ungrateful. This has GOT to be a teaching moment. So today, EVERYTHING, except ONE stuffed animal/baby doll, ONE blanket, ONE sheet, and ONE pillow was taken out of their rooms and playroom. No toys, no TV, no iPad games, no video games. They can play outside (which they do anyway), ride their bikes, color, draw, read, or talk to each other. No fast food on Fridays, only meals at home. If we are out of food, it's peanut butter sandwiches. Our goal is doing this for 2 weeks, but we will re-evaluate at that time.
We did not make them feel guilty. We told them that they were NOT in trouble. We told them that this is an experiment that we are doing together. We did not bring up or remind them of any of the specific events that led to this decision. We didn't want them to think we decided this based on a "knee-jerk" reaction. We tried to be gentle and loving when telling them about this.
After all the kids finished their daily reading, showered, and brushed their teeth, we ALL laid down on the concrete outside to watch the clouds. Crazy, right??? We pretended the clouds were the ocean. We even told each other, "Hey, you want to go to the beach?". The kids said the bats looked like the fish in the sea, the airplanes were the boats, the puffy clouds were the waves, and so on. We even all closed our eyes and got still and quiet to guess how many different kinds of summer bugs we could hear serenading us. I'm sure if the neighbors looked out their window, they thought "Wow, those Nesmith's are weirder than we thought". But is was a really neat moment together. See, we take those small, but big things for granted!!!
All in all - it was a great day!!!
Verse of the day: "All night long I search for you; in the morning I earnestly seek for God. For only when you come to judge the earth will people learn what is right."
Isaiah 26:9
Sunday, August 19, 2012
There's nothing like worshiping the Lord.........BAREFOOT!!!
Saturday morning I got up at FIVE IN THE MORNING to go grocery shopping. Because we don't have a big grocery store (only a "mom & pop" grocery), I have to go to Walmart each time. Well, our Walmart services approximately 50,000 people who live in the North Jefferson area. I get SO frustrated when I go to the store and they are out of EVERYTHING. I understand it, but it makes me want to scream!!! Not only that, there are a bijillion and one people that crowd the aisles, and there are lines 10 people deep at the registers. I am not exaggerating at all! I have learned through these very frustrating, stressful times that I am in a much better mood if I sacrifice a little sleep and do my shopping early in the morning. Plus, Walmart stocks each night, so their inventory is much better. AND, I can peacefully stroll the aisles alone, listen to my iPod, read labels, and actually shop! It's a little piece of Heaven actually.
So I went to do back to school grocery shopping at 5 am Saturday morning, and then I went to BodyFlow at 8 am. My plan is to get back in shape after the kids start back to school. When I got home from Flow, Keith had the bags packed and we spontaneously decided to go to Nashville to visit Keith's brother and his wife. We all LOVE going there. It's a nice way to kind of de-stress and rejuvinate. Understand me when I say that the house looked like a tornado because I am in the process of purging all of the CRAP from each room. You know, like spring cleaning. As you know (and if you don't know), you usually have a bigger mess FIRST during spring cleaning before it gets better. Well, we just left all that CRAP where it was and headed up to Tennessee. I mean, heck, it's the last weekend before school, and the house stuff will still be there when we get back, right???
The trip up was relatively painless. We laughed, sang, read, and talked. We only had to stop and pee twice (and both of those were for me). The kids went swimming at Uncle Kev's and Aunt Tiff's neighborhood pool, and we were the only one's there, so it felt like a private pool!!! We also went on the golf cart into the woods and saw about 10 deer (precious babies with their spots, too) and 3 turkeys. It was really cool. You should have seen all SIX of us crammed on that golf cart. Selah was buck naked, by the way (we did cover her up with a towel...sort of).
Today (Sunday), we went to a church called Journey. It was held in an old factory. It was really beautiful with exposed beams and pipes. The service was awesome - 2 hours long!!! It didn't feel like 2 hours, however. The kids actually did great! I think they were able to connect well during the service. One thing about my girls is that as far back as I can remember, they are always in church barefooted!!! I mean, 100% of the time since they were babies, the first thing they do is take their shoes off in the aisle. I don't know why they do that, but I think it's really cool. Many of you who know the Nesmiths know that the Nesmith kids LOVE to be naked (pronounced "nekked"). I know some people are weird about that, but we aren't too picky. Obviously, my almost 10 year old son doesn't run around the neighborhood naked, and he now has to be dressed in front of his sisters. But I kind of like that my kids are free and feel comfortable and confident to be free. I mean, Sarah B hardly wore a pair of shoes when we were in Guatemala at the girl's home. I think sometimes, we as adults, over-think things. I know some people think it would be a disrespectful thing to go barefooted in church, but I truly think the girls feel like they can worship and be closer to God. I certainly don't want to stifle that. I'll tell you that it is a great example to me when I see them not sweat the small stuff in life. I mean, people have gotten away from wearing suits and dresses and hats to church. Many people now are wearing jeans and t-shirts. I think the thought is that people should feel free to be comfortable when they worship. I looked down the aisle today, and I saw Will up at the altar praying and Sarah B with her hands up during a song, worshiping. Susannah was singing with all her might, and Selah was lying her head on my shoulder while I was singing in her ear. I was moved by hearing all the voices praying The Lord's Prayer. Sometimes we pray that prayer like a robot, and I believe we truly take for granted the words and meaning of the prayer because it is recited so often. When I was hearing all the female voices, deep bass voices, tenor voices, and the innocent voices of children all in unison, I truly felt the presence of the Spirit. I thanked God at that very moment for how truly blessed I am. I cannot thank Him enough for the gifts He has bestowed upon me and my family. How can we thank Him enough?
For those of you who accidentally came upon this blog, I ask you to please respect me and grant me this request - please do not post any negative comments or comments that state that you disagree with me or my family. This blog is meant to be a collection of memories for my children (and ourselves as parents) to remember the moments of our lives. Feel free to simply never visit my blog again if you disagree or are offended by anything. You are certainly entitled to your opinions, and I am honestly glad you have opinions. Thank you in advance for respecting my request.
GET READY...........the "shock and awe" parenting tactic that we had to initiate.......It's a biggie.......
Verse of the day: "What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If GOD is for us, then WHO can be against us?"
Romans 8:31
So I went to do back to school grocery shopping at 5 am Saturday morning, and then I went to BodyFlow at 8 am. My plan is to get back in shape after the kids start back to school. When I got home from Flow, Keith had the bags packed and we spontaneously decided to go to Nashville to visit Keith's brother and his wife. We all LOVE going there. It's a nice way to kind of de-stress and rejuvinate. Understand me when I say that the house looked like a tornado because I am in the process of purging all of the CRAP from each room. You know, like spring cleaning. As you know (and if you don't know), you usually have a bigger mess FIRST during spring cleaning before it gets better. Well, we just left all that CRAP where it was and headed up to Tennessee. I mean, heck, it's the last weekend before school, and the house stuff will still be there when we get back, right???
The trip up was relatively painless. We laughed, sang, read, and talked. We only had to stop and pee twice (and both of those were for me). The kids went swimming at Uncle Kev's and Aunt Tiff's neighborhood pool, and we were the only one's there, so it felt like a private pool!!! We also went on the golf cart into the woods and saw about 10 deer (precious babies with their spots, too) and 3 turkeys. It was really cool. You should have seen all SIX of us crammed on that golf cart. Selah was buck naked, by the way (we did cover her up with a towel...sort of).
Today (Sunday), we went to a church called Journey. It was held in an old factory. It was really beautiful with exposed beams and pipes. The service was awesome - 2 hours long!!! It didn't feel like 2 hours, however. The kids actually did great! I think they were able to connect well during the service. One thing about my girls is that as far back as I can remember, they are always in church barefooted!!! I mean, 100% of the time since they were babies, the first thing they do is take their shoes off in the aisle. I don't know why they do that, but I think it's really cool. Many of you who know the Nesmiths know that the Nesmith kids LOVE to be naked (pronounced "nekked"). I know some people are weird about that, but we aren't too picky. Obviously, my almost 10 year old son doesn't run around the neighborhood naked, and he now has to be dressed in front of his sisters. But I kind of like that my kids are free and feel comfortable and confident to be free. I mean, Sarah B hardly wore a pair of shoes when we were in Guatemala at the girl's home. I think sometimes, we as adults, over-think things. I know some people think it would be a disrespectful thing to go barefooted in church, but I truly think the girls feel like they can worship and be closer to God. I certainly don't want to stifle that. I'll tell you that it is a great example to me when I see them not sweat the small stuff in life. I mean, people have gotten away from wearing suits and dresses and hats to church. Many people now are wearing jeans and t-shirts. I think the thought is that people should feel free to be comfortable when they worship. I looked down the aisle today, and I saw Will up at the altar praying and Sarah B with her hands up during a song, worshiping. Susannah was singing with all her might, and Selah was lying her head on my shoulder while I was singing in her ear. I was moved by hearing all the voices praying The Lord's Prayer. Sometimes we pray that prayer like a robot, and I believe we truly take for granted the words and meaning of the prayer because it is recited so often. When I was hearing all the female voices, deep bass voices, tenor voices, and the innocent voices of children all in unison, I truly felt the presence of the Spirit. I thanked God at that very moment for how truly blessed I am. I cannot thank Him enough for the gifts He has bestowed upon me and my family. How can we thank Him enough?
For those of you who accidentally came upon this blog, I ask you to please respect me and grant me this request - please do not post any negative comments or comments that state that you disagree with me or my family. This blog is meant to be a collection of memories for my children (and ourselves as parents) to remember the moments of our lives. Feel free to simply never visit my blog again if you disagree or are offended by anything. You are certainly entitled to your opinions, and I am honestly glad you have opinions. Thank you in advance for respecting my request.
GET READY...........the "shock and awe" parenting tactic that we had to initiate.......It's a biggie.......
Verse of the day: "What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If GOD is for us, then WHO can be against us?"
Romans 8:31
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